People will tell you in their bios on LinkedIn or on their websites that they’re really passionate about marketing or about metrics, or about “B2b communications through social media” — whatever that even means! They’ll swear that all of these things are their deepest, most abiding passion.
And it always makes me stop, because I think, who is really passionate about any of that? And do they have the same definition of passionate as I do?
Who is passionate about tweeting? Or about closing deals? Who is passionate about growth metrics? It’s a shorthand for when you just don’t know what to write but you want it to sound important, and we’ve started using the word passion as something that belongs in a job description, instead of in our hearts.
It’s a long way from what passion used to be.
I believe it's like the word love or friendship. It’s a word that is used very often but not meant in the right way.
When I think about passion, I’m thinking about the love you can have for another person, for your friends and for your family and for your community, for your mission and for what you believe in and for the changes you want to make in the world.
When I think about passion, I’m thinking about the need to create products that can transform lives, a need that keeps me up at night working on making myself and my companies better, long after the rest of the world is asleep.
I wouldn’t want to be stuck at a party talking to someone who feels ”passionate” about a sales tool. That doesn’t sound like a conversation I would come out of alive. But I would want to talk to someone who is passionate about how they’re using that sales tool to share an innovation with the world that has the potential to reinvent the way we live.
And I try to embody that way of thinking. I don’t tell people that I’m passionate about broadband technology.
I say I’m passionate about connecting humans. And that’s the truth.
The whole point of passion is that it gives us purpose. When we throw the word around, we lose some of its power.
The other night, I caught up with an entrepreneur I’ve known for a while . I’ve been working with him to try and lock down what he really wants to do next, and commit to it.
He told me that he’s passionate about building a new CRM product. And I just had to stop him, and ask him if he actually meant to use the word passion. The more we talked about it, the more he came to realise that when he said he was passionate about a CRM, he really meant that he was passionate about relationships, and finding ways to make them stronger.
I think that it’s more and more important to question what you’re really passionate about. To question what you mean when you apply that word, and to make sure that there are areas of your life where that passion belongs, where it can live and breath and grow and thrive. It might be a passion that drives your work, or a passion that drives you to carve out time with your kids, or a passion that keeps you focused on helping others. Whatever it is, I hope it’s enough to get you onto your feet every single day.
There are going to be times when you have to do what you need to do, in order to get your financial freedom and get by, to allow you to focus on or do what you are actually passionate about. It can take time, if your passion doesn't put food on the table, and there’s nothing with pushing through it to get there.
But we’re creative people, right? As entrepreneurs, we have to be. That’s what we are, it’s what we’re all about. But a big part of that is our passion. Our passion gives us everything we need to grow, and we should never sell it short.
Ask yourself this. What are you really passionate about?
When I started Broadband Solutions, I didn’t read a book about running a business and I didn’t have the information we now have online at my fingertips. A lot of what I did in the early days was taking a skill set I already had and then extending that into a business by serving the next customer and the next. The trick is to make recoverable mistakes.
For example, I have people ask me ‘how did you find such a good accountant?’ and let me tell you, I didn’t at first. Finding my accountant probably cost me about $300K in ten failed accountants before him. I didn’t have someone giving me a gold business card and saying ‘oh Sam, call this number and they’ll take care of all your problems’. I learnt what I needed and what I wanted along the way.
Every successful entrepreneur faces challenges and they are different for everyone. The biggest deception is looking at someone’s success and thinking they had it easy.
Youth and taking responsibility
Jack Bloomfield is a 17-year-old serial entrepreneur who started his first business at 12; in just a few years he’s started and run multiple businesses. One of the issues he faces is that because of his youth and early success, people don’t believe that he’s the driver of those businesses, people assume it must've been easy or given to him.
The reality is, it’s a lot harder being young. “For me, being 17, [challenges are] amplified. Because I'm under the age of 18, I can't legally register a business, I can't even set up an ABN, I can't legally sign anything,” he says. “That's really hard when you've got to constantly ask your mum, ‘can you co-sign for this? Can you co-sign for that?’ She doesn't really know what ‘that’ is, and for me that's hard because I feel like I'm putting the onus on her. And that's just another challenge. And no matter who you are, we've all got challenges.”
His advice is, if you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen; the more successful you are, the more your responsibilities grow. “I think the more you have, the greater the challenges that come with it. So if you don't like the challenges you've got now, go down, don't go up. If you're ready to take on the world, go ahead.”
Creativity and hard work
Matteo Charles started his business addressing a very different challenge. Hospitalised due to an incurable chronic illness, he says art was the only thing to get him “out of the trenches”. One day he decided to leave ‘the trenches’ for good. “The last time I was in hospital, I said to myself ‘I need to do something that's going to give me more purpose and not just be in hospital all the time’. So I took a leap of faith, I basically took my life back into my own hands,” he explains.
He reversed the advance of the disease and started to get better. His mother suggested he enter the speaking circuit to talk about his recovery process, but he was reluctant to become just another speaker. “She said, ‘why don't you use your art as a form of communication?’ Everyone used to tell me you can't make money from art, art's not a business, so I used to do it as a hobby.” But the idea escalated. “My mum would say, ‘why don't you paint portraits of people that have changed the world?’ I'm like, ‘yeah, that's cool, why don't I do it really fast?’ Then she'd say, ‘why don’t you add music to it?’”
The result is a unique form of performance art. Matteo paints a portrait on stage in 10 minutes and has produced portraits of everyone from newlyweds to CEOs and global celebrities. He makes it look easy but there’s hard work behind it.
“A portrait is a very intimate thing, so if you get it wrong, you can offend someone,” he says. “I really had to practice and practice and practice and practice to get the craft right. I've effectively got 10 minutes on stage and if I screw that up, I pretty much won't get work ever again. So for me the real challenge was just perfecting my style, creating a style that was unique to me and making sure that every time I'd nail that portrait.”
What I’ve learnt from these two is that persistence pays off. If you give up at the first challenge then you’ll never get to the good part. The reality is, business – and life – have challenges all the way, which means you need to recognise that challenges aren’t the end, they are a time for growth. So go out and give it your best shot.
For more stories about highs and lows, finding balance and cultivating the right environment to thrive, listen to Episode 1 of the From Thousands to Millions podcast with Sam Bashiry and special guests Jack Bloomfield and Matteo Charles. It’s not quite a gold business card but it’s pretty close
